Reflections on the Past Year...Not Culinary Related

As we enter this last week of 2012, I find myself reflecting on the ending year and planning out the next.  Looking back on the year makes me realize just how important my family is.  Death, divorce, health scares, health triumphs, funny episodes, scary times, difficult decisions and failed plans have all swirled together 'perfect storm' style to force me to slow down and reflect on what is really important.  My family, from my children to my ancestors' past, is the absolute most important part of my life.  2012 has made me appreciate trivial tasks such as the quiet time a short car ride with my wife provides, the wonder my youngest experiences when making cheese-pie (cheesecake), the unique conversations (and subsequent twists) I have with my son, and the realization that helping my oldest rehab yet another knee surgery may be the last time she presents herself as actually needing my help.  Through the lens of 2012, these everyday life happenings have given me new perspective and wisdom. 

While not always perfect, I try to keep every event in proper perspective.  Is there something I can do to effect change?  Will this help me see what is most important?  Does this make me happy or does it cause me stress?  Does your problem really have anything to do with me?...These are all questions I try to force myself to answer whenever life is starting to get difficult...Does it lead me down the right path?  Not always.  More often than not though, I like to feel my path is headed straight.

I have been a big fan of the TED talks and find myself returning many times to this particular presentation by Ric Elias on the things he learned when his plane crashed.  I hope it you find it as thought provoking as I.

I have no idea what 2013 will bring to me or my family.  I do know that whatever life throws our way, we will emerge stronger and more resolute than ever.  People will change...most for the better...new experiences will present themselves...and thats OK.  I look forward to the journey. 

Happy Holidays

Just want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas.  If you celebrate a different holiday, I hope it was joy filled and everything you had imagined.


If you are looking for a quick holiday recipe for a last minute party, try making Eggnog.  The folks over at ExpertVillage on Youtube posted this video:

Also, while you are at it, make a couple last minute gifts in your spare time: